Love, Process, Integration
September 12, 2012
I had a powerful, experiential realization about love the other day.
Love is acceptance.
Love isn’t about helping someone, fixing someone, doing things for someone.
It’s just total, open, non-judging acceptance.
But how many of us accept ourselves? And when we don’t fully accept ourselves, how can we accept others?
Love, Unity, Oneness, Peace – can only come through acceptance.
And acceptance only comes through fully accepting oneself, integrating our rejected, repressed shadow sides.
So, integration leads to acceptance leads to love… leads to peace.
Integration comes through processing – through experiencing, through living.
Process has been coming up a lot for me lately. The journey of life.
We don’t cut a butterfly out of the cocoon; why do we cut a baby out of a human?
I was recently introduced to the theory that the skipping of the birthing process – Eden/Womb, Contraction/Fear, Struggle/Journey, and Birth/Realization – produces people who have trouble following through as adults. They didn’t get that initial blueprint for the Hero’s Journey. Makes sense to me.
I think Integration is a key word for the future of the world. Integration of the masculine/feminine, east/west, natural/human, light/dark.